What She’s Thinking: men’s dating & sex questions answered by women

8: Do you care about making more than him, how is online dating different for men vs women, things not to do on your profile, last thoughts

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Lady-bosses Jessica, Hope, and Jen answer your questions about dating and sex. This is the third and final part of our discussion!

Send in your questions: makeonlinedatingfun.com/questions

This episode covers:

- Do you care how much the guy makes? What if he makes less than you, does that make him less attractive?

- How do you think men and women experience online dating differently? (e.g. I think women get 10 times more attention)

- Discussion on catfishing, why to use current photos, and in general what to not do in your profile

- Any last things you want to tell the guys listening?

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7: Turnons, talking about sexual desires, “what do you want” vs “may I?”, length of ideal sex, etiquette to get back in touch

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Lady-bosses Jessica, Hope, and Jen answer your questions about dating and sex. Our discussion went so long, it's going to be three parts!

Send in your questions: makeonlinedatingfun.com/questions

This episode covers:

- What are your biggest turn-ons during sex?
- When you're ready to talk have sex with him, when do you prefer talking about your preferences and desires for sex? In bed before sex, while having sex, outside the bedroom?
- How do you like to be asked during sex what you like and want (direct, not asking at all and intuitively feeling it out, etc...)
- Which question do you prefer: may I do this, can we do this, or what would you like?
- How long is your ideal sex session (the in and out portion, not the foreplay)? What is the minimum amount of time that is satisfactory? Conversely, how much time before it’s too long?
- Is there an etiquette for when you are too busy one month, and want to get in touch with an old match to try again?

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6: Teasing; Foreplay spots; Saying no thanks to her, and how she’ll show she’s not interested; Where to meet besides online

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Lady-bosses Jessica, Hope, and Jen answer your questions about dating and sex. Our discussion went so long, it's going to be three parts! Part 2 is coming on Wednesday. 

Send in your questions: makeonlinedatingfun.com/questions

This episode covers:

- Outside of online dating, what are the best venues to meet potential partners?
- If a guy isn’t interested in you, how would you like him to tell you that?
- How can you tell if she’s not interested in you?
- Do you enjoy teasing men (like leaning in for a kiss, then pulling back if he leans in)? What do you get out of it? How do you think it feels for us? What’s the best way to deal with a woman who’s teasing me?
- Please rate your sex drive compared to the average woman’s.
- Where is your favorite place to be touched for foreplay? How do you like to be touched there?

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5: turn-offs, discussing fantasies with a guy, her sex drive compared to avg woman, how to ask what she likes, kegels

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Women answer your questions about sex! Part 2 of 2.

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This episode covers these questions:

- I love it when my partner squeezes her kegels while we're having sex. Is that something you can do? Do you enjoy it?

- What are your biggest turn-offs during sex?

- How do you like to discuss fantasies that aren't mainstream, or might have sensitivities attached to them?

- How do you like to be asked during sex what you like and want (direct, not asking at all and intuitively feeling it out, etc...)

- Any strong thoughts/feelings about "how to proceed when an established partner is not really into it at the moment but realizes these things go both ways." For example, is "be a good sport" a worthy rule of thumb? If not, what is the preferred rule of thumb?

- Please rate your sex drive compared to the average woman’s.

- Any last things you want to tell the guys listening?

 

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4: Consent, foreplay, turn-ons, aggressiveness, length of ideal session, favorite parts of men’s bodies, and more! (Sex Q’s Part 1)

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Women answer your questions about sex! Part 1 of 2.

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This episode covers these questions: - What's the best way to get consent? Explicit and direct, or a bit more nuanced? Tell us, how you tell us yes.
- What do you find attractive about men’s bodies?
- Where is your favorite place to be touched for foreplay? How do you like to be touched there?
- What behaviors in your partner help you be open and clear with your sexual requests?
- What are your biggest turn-ons during sex?
- How long is your ideal sex session (intercourse, not foreplay)? What's the minimum amount of time that is satisfactory?
- Beyond the first time you have sex, how do you like your boyfriend to tell you he wants to, and is excited to, have sex with you that night?
- What kind of aggressiveness do you like in a man, and what kind is scary?

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3: Should I send a second message? Why she followed you on Instagram… (Dating Q’s Part 2)

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Women answer your questions about dating! Part 2 of 2.
Guests: Courtney, Yijen, and Li.

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This episode covers these questions:
- After we match, if you follow me on Instagram, what's the next step? Do we talk there, or on the dating app?
- What do you look for on someone's Instagram? What stands out? What's meh?
- After we match, if you don't respond the first time I send a message, should I send another?
- How long should a guy wait before sending the second message?

 

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2: Good first dates, and should I pay? Why she sends short answers (Dating Q’s Part 1)

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Women answer your questions about dating! Part 1 of 2.
Guests: Courtney, Yijen, and Li.

Send in your questions: makeonlinedatingfun.com/questions

This episode covers these questions:
- Why do women so often just answer with something short ("things are great"), and not even ask a question back to me? (Is this something guys do, too?)
- What's a good first date activity? What's one that is boring or overdone?
- Who pays on the first date, what do you prefer? (lots of discussion on this!)

 

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1: Hello & What this podcast is about (trailer)

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Hello! I'm Greg Schwartz, thanks for listening to this podcast. On each episode I ask a group of women questions submitted by men like you. Questions on dating, sex, whatever you’d like to know. 

To submit your questions, go to makeonlinedatingfun.com/questions

The next episodes are a two-part episodes with women answering your questions about dating. We cover many questions, including:
- If you don't respond the first time I send a message, should I send another?
- Why do women so often write a short response?
- What's a good first date activity?

That’s followed by a two-part episode with women answering your questions about sex, including:
- What are your biggest turn-ons during sex?
- How long is your ideal sex session? 
- Where is your favorite place to be touched for foreplay, and how do you like to be touched there?

So download the other episodes, you’ll be blown away by their honesty!