What She’s Thinking: men’s dating & sex questions answered by women

21: work affecting libido, when to talk about sex, aggressiveness you like in a man

Stefanie Maegan (28), the host of the Broke Girl Therapy podcast, and Rose McAleese (29) answer your questions! (Part 1 / 2)

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This episode covers:

- How would you like to be approached at work? Have you ever been? How did that feel?

- What are the Pros/Cons of Online Dating sites (PoF, OkCupid) vs Apps (e.g. Tinder, Bumble)?

- If you're 2 dates in and there's still no kiss, would you move on?

- What kind of aggressiveness do you like in a man, and what kind is scary?

- How can we spot a female profile that is catfishing us?

- What do you think is the solution to your work stress affecting your dating and libido? What can men do to help you with that?

- Please rate your sex drive compared to the average woman’s.

- When you're ready to have sex with him, when do you prefer talking about your preferences and desires for sex? In bed before sex, while having sex, outside the bedroom?

- There's a phrase "opposites attract". Has that been true in your good relationships?

- Which question do you prefer: may I do this, can we do this, or what would you like?

 

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20: who pays on 1st date, do you care how much a guy makes, what can he do to help her make clear sexual requests, how does work stress affect dating and sex, optimal sex session length

Note: this episode got messed up on my podcast host, with 2 minutes of silence and a weird speed adjustment (no, I wasn't on helium!) so I've re-uploaded it. Sorry about that -- give it another listen!

Z, Janey, and Chloe answer your questions!

Office hours, Wednesdays in February @ 1pm Pacific Time: facebook.com/debugdating

 

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This episode covers:

- If a guy isn’t interested in you, how would you like him to tell you that?

- How can you tell if she’s not interested in you?

- Do you care how much the guy makes? What if he makes less than you, does that make him less attractive?

- Who pays on the first date, what do you prefer?

- What behaviors in your partner help you be open and clear with your sexual requests?

- How does your career/work affect your dating life?

- What do you think is the solution to your work stress affecting your dating and libido? What can men do to help you with that?

- Please rate your sex drive compared to the average woman’s

- How can a man tell if a woman has a high or low sex drive?

- Beyond the first time you have sex, how do you like your boyfriend to tell you he wants to, and is excited to, have sex with you that night?

- How long is your ideal sex session (not including foreplay)? What is the minimum amount of time that is satisfactory? Conversely, how much time before it’s too long?

 

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19: First date topics, languages of love, women’s short answers, Instagram, older vs younger matches, last things you appreciate

Z, Janey, and Chloe answer your questions!

Office hours, Wednesdays in February @ 1pm Pacific Time: facebook.com/debugdating

 

Hear your questions get answered! Send them to Greg: makeonlinedatingfun.com/questions

This episode covers:

- What are the first date topics that meaningful and enjoyable for you to talk about?

- What are your top 2 languages of love?

- Why do women so often just answer with something short ("things are great"), and not even ask a question back to me? (Is this something guys do, too?)

- What do you find attractive about men’s bodies?

- After we match, if you follow me on Instagram, what's the next step? Do we talk there, or on the dating app?

- What do you look for on someone's Instagram? What stands out? What's meh?

- Do you expect anything different from matches high end of your age range vs the average or low end?

- Any strong thoughts/feelings about "how to proceed when established partner is not really into it at the moment but realizes these things go both ways." For example, is "be a good sport" a worthy rule of thumb? If not, what is the preferred rule of thumb?

- Any last things you really appreciate when guys do?

 

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18: Non-American perspective, part 3: do you enjoy teasing men, best venues to meet potential partners, who pays on the first dates

Ms J, BL, and LLJT answer your questions!

Office hours, Wednesdays in February @ 1pm Pacific Time: facebook.com/debugdating

 

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This episode covers:

- Do you enjoy teasing men (like leaning in for a kiss, then pulling back if he leans in)? What do you get out of it? How do you think it feels for us? What’s the best way to deal with a woman who’s teasing me?

- Outside of online dating, what are the best venues to meet potential partners?

- Who pays on the first date, what do you prefer?

- Any last things you really appreciate when guys do?

 

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17: Non-American perspective: wanting sex more than he does, favorite foreplay spots, favorite parts of men’s bodies, breast touching, favorite ways for man to tell you he’s excited for sex

Ms J, BL, and LLJT answer your questions!

Workshopsfacebook.com/debugDating/events
SF: find a date for Valentine's Day
LA: Get the first dates you want! 

Office hours, Wednesday 1pm PT: facebook.com/debugdating

 

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This episode covers:

- What do you find attractive about men’s bodies?

- Where is your favorite place to be touched for foreplay? How do you like to be touched there?

- What's your favorite way to have your breasts touched? What about your nipples?

- Beyond the first time you have sex, how do you like your boyfriend to tell you he wants to, and is excited to, have sex with you that night?

- How does it feel as a woman when you want sex more than your partner does?

- When you want to have sex more than your partner does, or your partner wants to have sex more than you do, what do you feel like is the best way to work through that, to talk through that, to deal with it? 

 

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16: Non-American perspective: good first dates, creating connection, stress affecting dating & libido, asking for feedback during sex

Ms J, BL, and LLJT answer your questions!

Workshopsfacebook.com/debugDating/events
SF: find a date for Valentine's Day
LA: Get the first dates you want! 

Office hours, Wednesday 1pm PT: facebook.com/debugdating

 

Hear your questions get answered! Send them to Greg: makeonlinedatingfun.com/questions

This episode covers:

- What's a good first date activity? What's one that is boring or overdone? 

- If you could choose any activity for your next first date, what would it be and why?

- Since it's currently the winter holidays, what first dates are you most excited by?

- What’s a way you like for a man to create connection on a date?

- How does your career/work affect your dating life?

- Please rate your sex drive compared to the average woman’s.

- How often would you like to have sex?

- What are your top 2 languages of love?

- How does your career/work affect your libido / sex life?

- What behaviors in your partner help you be open and clear with your sexual requests?

- How do you like to be asked during sex what you like and want?

 

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15: Frequent travelers: How to tell she’s not interested, turn-ons before & during sex, best offline ways to meet, top languages of love

Two frequent travelers, Patricia and Anna answer your questions.

 

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This episode covers:

- What are your biggest turn-ons before sex?

- What are your biggest turn-ons during sex?

- Please rate your sex drive compared to the average woman’s

- Outside of online dating, what are the best venues to meet potential partners?

- How can you tell if she’s not interested in you?

- Any last things you really appreciate when guys do?

- What are your top 2 languages of love?

 

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14: Frequent travelers: sending a 2nd message, who pays on first date, dating preferences in 20s vs 30s, men being emotionally present, talk on Instagram vs app

Two frequent travelers, Patricia and Anna answer your questions.

 

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This episode covers:

- After we match, if you don't respond the first time I send a message, should I send another?

- After we match, if you follow me on Instagram, what's the next step? Do we talk there, or on the dating app?

- Who pays on the first date, what do you prefer?

- What's a good first date activity? What's one that is boring or overdone?

- How have you evolved in your dating preferences from 20 to 30?

- How important is it that your partner be emotionally present during sex? If so, what does emotional presence look like to you?

 

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13: best places to meet besides online, turn-ons before sex, turn-ons during sex, opposites attracting, when she follows you Instagram, final things they appreciate men doing

Answering your questions about dating and sex we have:

- Christina Weber, founder of Deepen

- Ozzie Osbourne, a love & relationship coach with a podcast of her own: "The Sexy Shift"

Plus Ozzie is collaborating with me to host a dating workshop in LA on January 17th 2019. Get your tickets here: http://bit.ly/laWorkshop

Send in your questions: makeonlinedatingfun.com/questions

This episode covers:

- What are your biggest turn-ons before sex?

- What are your biggest turn-ons during sex?

- There's a phrase "opposites attract". Has that been true in your good relationships?

- After we match, if you follow me on Instagram, what's the next step? Do we talk there, or on the dating app?

- What do you look for on someone's Instagram? What stands out? What's meh?

- Outside of online dating, what are the best venues to meet potential partners?

- Any last things you really appreciate when guys do?

 

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12: how can men help when her work affects libido, how to tell she has a high sex drive, kickstarting her sex drive, first date topics, length of sex, how to help her ask for what she wants

Answering your questions about dating and sex we have:

- Christina Weber, founder of Deepen

- Ozzie Osbourne, a love & relationship coach with a podcast of her own "The Sexy Shift". 

Plus Ozzie is collaborating with me to host a dating workshop in LA on January 17th 2019. Get your tickets here: http://bit.ly/laWorkshop

Send in your questions: makeonlinedatingfun.com/questions

This episode covers:

- What are the first date topics that meaningful and enjoyable for you to talk about?

- What are your top 2 languages of love?

- What do you find attractive about men’s bodies?

- What do you think is the solution to your work stress affecting your dating and libido? What can men do to help you with that?

- How long is your ideal sex session (the in and out portion, not the foreplay)? What is the minimum amount of time that is satisfactory? Conversely, how much time before it’s too long?

- Please rate your sex drive compared to the average woman’s.

- What behaviors in your partner help you be open and clear with your sexual requests?

- How do you like to be asked during sex what you like and want?

- How can a man tell if a woman has a high or low sex drive?

- What are things that you've found men can do to kick-start your sex drive with them? To create conditions for having that higher interest in sex?

 

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